What We Secretly Long For . . . 

Until we learn how to experience pleasure as a full-bodied experience, we will tend to seek it through shallow substitutes:​ like eating, shopping, drinking wine, and social media-ing, just to name a few.

While these strategies might satisfy us temporarily, they don't really fulfill us - not for long anyway.

Perhaps what we secretly long for is someone or something to open us past our defenses and fill us with reliable, trustable, unconditional love.

Whether you are gay or straight, Christian or Hindu, if you have a feminine sexual essence, you long, deep down, to open and receive this kind of penetrating love -  a love that will fill your whole body, nourish your spirit, and bloom you open as love.

I hope you will find the following videos helpful. They are not meant to challenge or undermine your spiritual beliefs, nor are they meant to limit what a woman is or is supposed to be. They are meant to acknowledge, validate, and normalize our shared longing and desires as women.

With love,

Art by Jennie Wakefield

How To Work With Fears/Blocks To Surrendering Open

• Bliss doesn't happen from the neck up
• Our sexuality can reveal what still needs to be healed
• Exploring sexual pleasure without a partner - beyond masturbation

Sex After 60, Spiritual Partnership, and Lack Of Horniness

• Older women with trauma
• Sexual relationship as spiritual partnership
• Libido energy versus horniness
• Why sex after 60 is "better"
• The gift of the "plumbing" not working like it used to
• What to do if you don't have a partner

What Is Sexual Polarity and Why It's Hot

• How do we create sexual polarity in our intimate relationships
• Polarity beyond stereotypes
• Real feminine gifting - bliss and trust
• Sexuality as the perfect arena to access, experience, and cultivate our true power
• Dancing our angry dance

Feminine Sexual Pleasure As Spiritual Practice

• Lack of sexual fulfillment and the layers of protection that it might reveal
• Opening to your partner, opening to God

And David was dancing before the Lord with all his might. Samuel 6:14-16

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